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LifeCulture

The Marginalian.

Maria Popova exploring literature, philosophy, art, and the search for meaning.

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J.R.R. Tolkien on How to Fall in Love with Life

In 1964, Pantheon Books invited J.R.R. Tolkien (January 3, 1892–September 2, 1973) to write an introduction to George MacDonald’s The Golden Key, which he had praised in Tree and Leaf — the small, splendid essay collection that gave us his uncommonly insightfu…

Thomas Bernhard on Walking, Thinking, and the Paradox of Self-Reflection

"There is nothing more revealing than to see a thinking person walking, just as there is nothing more revealing than to see a walking person thinking... Walking and thinking are in a perpetual relationship that is based on trust."

The Peace of Wild Things: Wendell Berry’s Poetic Antidote to Despair, Animated

On where to seek refuge from the forethought of grief.

Seneca on True and False Friendship

"Ponder for a long time whether you shall admit a given person to your friendship; but when you have decided to admit him, welcome him with all your heart and soul."

The Moving Story of the Dawn Redwood: How a Fossil Came Back to Life to Bring Humanity Together in the Middle of Our Deadliest War

How an ancient survivor of the unsurvivable became a triumph of the human spirit in a divided world.

The Fascinating Science of How We Think Not with the Brain But with the World

"By reaching beyond the brain... we are able to focus more intently, comprehend more deeply, and create more imaginatively — to entertain ideas that would be literally unthinkable by the brain alone."

How to Be a Good Explorer on the Lifelong Expedition to Yourself

Life is an ongoing expedition into the brambled tendrilled wilderness of ourselves, continually stymied by all we mistake for a final destination — success, superhuman strength, the love of another. Along the way, we keep confusing experiment and exploration.…

A Beginning, Not a Decline: Colette on the Splendor of Autumn and the Autumn of Life

In praise of "the gaiety of those who have nothing more to lose and so excel at giving."

The Day Dostoyevsky Discovered the Meaning of Life in a Dream

"And it is so simple... You will instantly find how to live."

Why Leaves Change Color and How We Become Who We Are: The Science of Chlorophyll and the Poetics of Personhood

"We reach forth and strain every nerve, but we seize only a bit of the curtain that hides the infinite from us."

The Unspeakable World: Alan Watts on How to Touch the Pulse of Life

What makes life so disorienting is that its greatest revelations and greatest transformations are inarticulable. William James knew this when he listed ineffability as the first of the four features of transcendent experiences. Everything beautiful and meaning…

Albert Camus on the Source of Strength and How to Save Our Sanity in Trying Times

"In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."

The New Science of Plant Intelligence and the Mystery of What Makes a Mind

"Every thought that has ever passed through your brain was made possible by plants."

How to Change Your Life

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE by Maria Popova Don’t try to wash your tired hands clean from the bloodshed of your private wars. Just unclench the fist that has come to feel like home and let the story slip between your trembling fingers into the river of time, silve…

Kahlil Gibran on the Courage to Weather the Uncertainties of Love

"Think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course."

The Paradoxes and Possibilities of Transformation: Adam Phillips on Our Ambivalent Desire for Change

"There is no description of a life without an account of the changes that are possible within it."

How to Break Free from the Tyranny of Certainty: The Japanese Concept of “Ma”

“Whatever inspiration is, it’s born from a continuous ‘I don’t know,'” the Polish poet Wisława Szymborska observed in her magnificent Nobel Prize acceptance speech. But despite all we know about the power of liminality and threshold states, we yearn for a firm…

How Not to Waste Your Wildness

"What is wild cannot be bought or sold, borrowed or copied. It is. Unmistakable, unforgettable, unshamable, elemental as earth and ice, water, fire and air, a quintessence, pure spirit, resolving into no constituents. Don't waste your wildness: it is precious…

Polyvagal Theory and the Neurobiology of Connection: The Science of Rupture, Repair, and Reciprocity

"The mind narrates what the nervous system knows. Story follows state."

I Long to Read More in the Book of You: Moomins Creator Tove Jansson’s Tender and Passionate Letters to the Love of Her Life

"I’m so unused to being happy that I haven’t really come to terms with what it involves... I feel like a garden that’s finally been watered, so my flowers can bloom."

The True Purpose of Tarot

“Nothing like this has ever happened before or will ever happen again,” a friend said to me about a lucky turn of events — a statement that struck me as touchingly self-negating: a recognition that life has violated her predictions about what is possible, imme…

How to Apologize: Reflections on Forgiveness, Self-Forgiveness, and the Vulnerabilities of Being Human

"It's permitted to receive solace for whatever you did or didn't do, pitiful, beautiful human."

Erich Fromm’s 6 Rules of Listening: The Great Humanistic Philosopher and Psychologist on the Art of Unselfish Understanding

"Understanding and loving are inseparable. If they are separate, it is a cerebral process and the door to essential understanding remains closed."

How to Reconcile Your Most Painful Mistakes: The Life-Shaping Difference Between Regret and Remorse

You know it, that awful moment your coherent self-image shatters and a part of you, shadowy and untended, splits off to cause harm and havoc as the rest of you watches helplessly, wincing. You know the next moment, too — the desperate wish for an undo button y…

How Two Souls Can Interact with One Another: Simone de Beauvoir on Love and Friendship

It is in relationships that we discover both our depths and our limits, there that we anneal ourselves and transcend ourselves, there that we are hurt the most and there that we find the most healing. But despite what a crucible of our emotional and spiritual…

The Most Important Thing to Remember About Your Mother

"It is not easy to give closeness and freedom, safety plus danger."

How to Handle Provocation: Bertrand Russell’s Remarkable Response to a Fascist

"The emotional universes we inhabit are so distinct, and in deepest ways opposed, that nothing fruitful or sincere could ever emerge from association between us."

The Art of Choosing Love Over Not-Love: Rumi’s Antidote to Our Human Tragedy

"You’ll long for me when I’m gone... You'll kiss the headstone of my grave... Kiss my face instead!"

The Power of Being a Threshold Person: Liminality, Communitas, and the Anti-structures of Possibility

“All things are so very uncertain, and that’s exactly what makes me feel reassured,” one of the Moomins observes in Tove Jansson’s masterwork of philosophy disguised as a children’s book. It takes a great spaciousness and sobriety of spirit to be vitalized rat…

Everything Is Already There: Javier Marías on the Courage to Heed Your Intuitions

"This has nothing to do with premonitions, there is nothing supernatural or mysterious about it, what’s mysterious is that we pay no heed to it."